Pubes. We all have them. Some choose to wax, shave, or laser; but why? Do you truly want to be hairless? Or is it just something you have to do as a female?
Pubic hair is actually one of the first signs of puberty, of growing up and becoming a woman; and there are five stages of its appearance – from virtually invisible “vellus hair” all the way to the vast spread onto your thighs! The process usually takes five years, but as you may already know the last stage can occur in your mid twenties.
I eventually learnt to embrace my bush and now it’s one of my biggest selling points on cam, but it took me a long time to feel confident about my bikini line!
As soon as I first grew pubes I was horrified and I shaved them all off. I had been told by my older brother’s friend that pubes weren’t real unless they were black. I shaved and shaved, waiting for the ‘real’ ones to grow.
When I realised mine were real and I was stuck with them, I kept on shaving, and then waxing, until my mid-twenties.
No partner had ever seen me with hair and I got embarrassed every time the subject was broached. The fashion was to have the vagina of an eight year old girl, and I stuck with this vehemently, despite my sensitive skin fighting back with rashes and ingrown hairs. My plump pink vulva was ugly like a freshly plucked chicken, but at least there wasn’t any hair down there!
My ‘horny ginger bush’ is advertised on my bio but not many clients seem to read profiles as I always get asked, “shaved?”, “have you got a bush?”, or the classic “do the carpets match the drapes?” when they see my wild ginger mane!
Each time I answer with a glint in my eye looking straight into the camera: “no babe I’ve got a gorgeous little bush,” I reply, or, “oh yes babes, I bet you want to see!”
A lot of your pheromones are in your pubes, as the hair traps scent – and no two people smell the same so embrace that crotch decoration! Pubes also act as a natural lubricant during sex. When you’re bumping and grinding that sexy fluff cushions your skin and stops any chaffing. This makes sense to me as I often got friction burns after particularly vigorous intercourse!
I started to leave the worst affected area (the “triangle”) alone; just shaving around it helped a lot, and it didn’t even repulse any of my sexual conquests; in fact a lot of them seemed to love it!
I would get chatted up a lot and the more brazen ones would ask about my pubes. One of my turn ons is much older men and they in particular would truly obsess over my lady garden! This made me question the reasons why I was always shaving or waxing, and refusing sex when I had hair down there, or even when I had a bad rash! What was the point? Was I doing it for me? Or for the very wrong reasons I’d learnt about society’s beauty standards?
So I began to embrace The Bush. No more embarrassment around it. I was damn proud actually. I had realised a long time ago how redheads are fetishised, and the matching fiery bush is all a part of the fixation.
I have cammed for four years now, and have always loved showing off my red triangle on cam, but only at the right moment as a lot of clients get a flash then log off, the cheeky b*****ds!! Many tell me they’ve never seen one before. They are fascinated and thirsty to see something they’ve only dreamed of until now. I have one regular client that likes to tell me how he’s cammed with all the redheads, and that all of them wax or shave their pubes, so according to him they aren’t true gingers!
What one does with their own pubic hair is their business, at the end of the day. What I do with mine is regularly broadcast online, and I love it. It is something that makes me ME. Embracing what is inherently you on your cam profile, sticking to your boundaries, and feeling comfortable in your own skin (and hair!) are extremely attractive qualities in a cam model. If you’re not feeling it online the chance are your clients won’t either. So take a break, write down your best features, have some me-time, then get back online when you’re ready. See you there 😉 Suze x
